Speaking tells the world who you are. Speaking is self-discloser. But what we disclose is not found simply in what we say. Rather, the message we’re really telling the world is found in our words' relationship with reality. In other words the congruence between what we say and what actually happens is what we’re really saying. Know what I’m saying? Most of what we say has little to do with what we’re talking about. That's what makes God, God. What he says is always in full alignment with
